Dang I'm really bad at this. Well a lot has happened since I last posted- Greg got home from Afghanistan 3 days after that post so we've been very busy. No excuse I know. Well I'll continue with my posts by starting out with his first 6 months. Right from the beginning Connor was stronger and seemed older (and bigger…) than most babies his age. He’s always been a few weeks ahead of the typical timelines of development. He had a very strong neck right away, slept through the night VERY early. He was alert pretty early on too. I had a couple tough days…with emphasis on “couple”. He was a great baby right away- sleeping for a 4 hour stretch the night he was born. By 4 weeks he was sleeping through the night (7ish to 7ish with 1 wake up for a last feeding around 11pm). He probably would have slept through earlier but I woke him up if he got close to 5 or 6 hours.
Funny story time- Connor had me laughing pretty quickly- night #4. My mom heard him around 3ish but he makes a lot of noises in his sleep- so she waited to grab him about 30 minutes. By the time she picked him up- he had blown out his diaper. As in pooped so hard and so much that his diaper was off and he was kicking his feet in it all happy and smiling (as much as a 4 day old smiles). He’d gone through his sack, blanket, sheet, and mattress cover. As much as it hurt my incision to laugh- I couldn’t help it- it was so hilarious. Two days later he still had crap in his toe nails.
Putney was pretty good with Connor right away. When we brought him back to my parents house she ran right up and licked him- which she’s NEVER done w/ a baby before. She was a little timid at first but after a couple weeks she just comes right over and licks him all over. She still won’t let us put him on her like a horse, but we’ll get there.
My mom and I made the trip from VA to NC after about 3 weeks. She stayed with me for 10 total days and my Dad came down for the last few. They came back the next weekend too so I wouldn’t be all alone…or because they were already super attached to Connor. Connor and I got in our routine (if you’d call it that) pretty quickly. I didn’t quite have a schedule at first- I mostly just did whatever I figured he needed- he’s so chill that I really didn’t struggle with feeding or sleeping. I had visitors EVERY weekend until mid-September but I went to VA then so I really wasn’t alone. During the day I ran errands or hung out with Amber & Hailey and then by Thursday I was cleaning for my next guest. Time was flying quickly, thank goodness.
Thank you to everyone that visited this summer: Mom & Dad (3 times); Ann & Allison & the twins; Katie & John & Amy; Glenna & Megan & Lindsey; Bev; then the big Labor day crew- Glenna, Leah & Brandon, Soph & Kevin, Kerry & Dish, Stac & Matt, Krit & Donnie; then Judy & Betsey. I felt blessed to have all of you come down and visit…I guess there wasn’t much begging going on when I have Connor with me…and the beach down the road!
At the start of Connor’s 4th month we took a trip to VA with Amber, Hailey & both dogs on September 15th. He was GREAT in the car. Greg turned 30 on the 22nd and we celebrated with Connor’s grandparents and we even sang Happy Birthday even though Greg wasn’t there. Connor braved another 6 hour car ride, the first with just Mommy (and the dogs) to head back to NC and prepare to meet Daddy. The 3rd best day of my life was October 2nd. With the first 2 being our wedding and Connor’s birth (not the birth part, that sucked, but the meeting him part). Yes Greg’s past 2 homecomings were amazing, but this one can’t be explained in words. Connor was an angel while I got the house all ready and did our big grocery trip and marinated Greg’s favorite first meals. Of course, I was not thrilled that Greg was the LAST flight and he was coming in at 3am…but I went with it (of course complaining some). I barely slept- probably 1 hour. Then I got up and got all ready, grabbed Connor and put him in the carseat, where he fell right back to sleep. Amber came along to take pictures for us- because I couldn’t not capture that moment! I have never been that excited, or had my makeup look that good at 3am (yes I’ve had makeup on at 3am in the past, but by then it was all smeared…ahh the good ole days). It was beyond wonderful to hug Greg and hand off Connor. Here’s our first family picture (Connor was 3.5months old):


Greg got right into the swing of things with Connor. Putting him in his carseat to go home and feeding him a bottle at 5am (so that we could sleep in til 9!). We showed Greg everything Connor could do- smile, roll over, spit up, poop, pee in the bathtub…big things;) The Skins won the next day, whoop! Greg had to work a few half days the next week but then he was off after that and we got to enjoy lots of family time! We took Connor on his, I think 16th trip to the beach (he was always covered with UPV gear and SPF, don’t judge!). We went to the South end of Topsail and the weather was beautiful!

My fam came down around October 14th for a week at the beach w/ the Hayes fam. He got lots of beach time and was really good all week. The following weekend we went to Longwood (23rd) for Greg’s CVAC 10 year reunion. The soccer team won CVAC championship in 2000- almost all of the guys made the trip. Kinda weird- Connor’s only the 2nd baby between all those guys…then there’s my laxers- Connor is one of 15 of our babies! We continued north to the McSween’s on October 24th and stayed there for the week. Ann and Dave took off a lot, Connor got to play with his cousins,
Connor was baptized on the 30th
and watched Mommy run a 6k and Daddy run the Marine Corps Marathon on the 31st! Frank & Danielle flew down the visit us the first weekend in November. Connor enjoyed his first firepit. We had a great 3 weeks with family and everyone really enjoyed seeing Connor, and seeing Greg with Connor. The only bad thing about 3 weeks of family time is that Connor got VERY used to being held. It took about a week, but I did break it. Until the next weekend when we went to NOVA again for Vets day, my 27th birthday, and Caruso’s wedding. We had our first date night without Connor for my birthday and our first overnight without him for Caruso’s wedding. Connor was very good for Nan & DaddyMac!
After a week or 2 of down time back in NC we headed to NOVA again for Thanksgiving, staying with my parents. The Reagles family joined us for the trip. It was great that Connor got to see all my family again- it had been awhile. There were about 30 people at my parents for Thanksgiving day. Grammi & Pappy watched Connor & Hailey while the 4 of us went to the Skins v. Vikings game (we won’t discuss the outcome) and then again when Amber & I went to see Michael Buble at the Verizon Center on November 30th. It was a great trip once again, bet then we needed a break. Had a few weeks back at home before we headed up again for Christmas. A few times over Thanksgiving weekend we tried sitting Connor up. Once I got back I tried it a little more- the first day I had my hand behind his back, the 2nd day I just held his hand and the 3rd day he was sitting up on his own, I even tested him and he lasted 10-15 minutes a few times! We also started some rice cereal in his bottle (blah blah blah they say it’s not a good idea, whatever) Thanksgiving night and he slept well, like always.

Back in NC, on December 4th- we thought we’d try a few new things- we knocked off his 5th feeding, his 3rd nap, and we started spoon feeding rice cereal- yes all in one day. But it worked and is still working. If he wants that 3rd nap, we let him take one for 30 minutes or so but for the most part it’s helped him nap longer for his 2 naps. We started feeding him solid foods on the 14th. Amber and I had baby food making day that week and we fed him carrots for his first solid food. He loved it, no surprise there. Was NOT expecting it to come out the same color & texture it went in- his diaper the next morning really shocked me (for those of you who got the graphic pix text- you know what I’m talking about).

We went home to NOVA for Christmas again- up on the 20th back on the 29th. Connor tends to get a little off his sleep-all-night schedule while we’re traveling, but other than that he adjusts pretty well. Right before Christmas we made a quick trip to NJ to see Connor’s great-great-Aunt Betty, his great Gramma, and great aunts/uncles & cousins. Back in VA we had 2 Christmas mornings where he was spoiled at both and somehow managed to get everything in the car to head back thanks to my expert tetris playing hubby. He also saw his first snowfall on Christmas day and the day after.
He also saw his first snowfall Christmas day and the day after...
Now that I just gave you the 411 on Connor’s first 6 months…let me wrap this blog up!
A few milestones & firsts…like I said before, Connor was pretty quick & early with a few things, like sleeping through the night at 4 weeks. He had his first long car ride (took 7 hours) at 3 weeks and he only cried 10 minutes, amazing. He started smiling (and does so a lot, almost on cue) at 6 or 7 weeks. He started scooting on his back, either backwards or turning in the opposite direction, at about 2 months. He rolled over from his stomach to back at almost 3 months on September 15th. Almost 2 weeks later on the 27th he rolled from his back to stomach. I first saw his thumb in his mouth at 3 and ½ months. He’s been growing at a pretty normal pace, for a big guy, weighing 11lbs2oz at almost 6 weeks; and 13lbs 7oz and 24.25in long at 2 months. I didn’t get him weighed at 3 months but he was 15lb13oz at almost 15 weeks. At his 4th month checkup he weighed 16lbs 10oz and was 26.25in long (the same weight as Daddy McFatty but 2in longer!) He was still scooting on his back at 4 months- so much so that one day he started by the TV and 3 minutes later he was by our backdoor (about 7 feet). He also found his voice around 4 months- he screams or screeches like a little girl, it’s hilarious. At 5 months he started to laugh, especially when we’d tickle him or toss him in the air. For some reason he thinks Putney’s hilarious too- and she doesn’t have to do anything. At his 6th month checkup he punched in at 19lb 1oz and is almost 28in long. There’s no question that we have a big little boy who is ever growing & progressing at a speedy pace!
Connor is a very lucky guy to have so many friends that were anxiously awaiting his arrival (along with impatient Mommy) ~ twin cousins Keegan and Adeline, as well as Jackson, Evie, Wyatt and Hailey. Connor was also excited to finally meet his newest friends ~ Olivia, Hadley, Siena, Elsie, and Molly and cannot wait for his 2011 friends baby Gregory and baby Powell. Congrats to all the recent mommies and daddies!
And now, to finish this well-over-do, way-too-long blog post- Happy 2011 to everyone! We celebrated with our friends & neighbors in NC while we had a sitter at my house to stay with 3 sleeping babies. It was a great night and start to the new year! My resolution- do I even need to say it? Clearly to POST MORE BLOGS.